Hi, my name is Maya, and I’m an eMailoholic

August 12, 2010 1 Comment by maya

I had my first email in 1996. It has now gotten to a point where  sometimes I can have as many as 10 or 15 email box checks a day. That’s not the only thing I use. There’s also Facebook, Twitter and Feeds. And it’s not just the Desktop. I do it on my laptop, iPad and iPhone too.

Every time I have a creative block, or I hit a wall in my research, or I want to pretend as if I’m not procrastinating, I escape to my box. It makes me feel busy. I check emails when I’m not working too.

I realize now that this is hurting me. And it’s hurting the people I love. It has happened more than once that while I was talking to a friend on the phone I was also writing an email. Not to mention when I talk to my mom. One time I even checked my emails during sacred Wednesday-date-night with my husband. And one particularly low-point time, on the way to the shower after sex.

They say it takes 21 days to break a habit. I was not able to find any scientific proof of that.

In the next 21 days, I will check my emails only twice a day: noon-time and end-of-the-work-day-time. I will feed my RSS needs once a day in the evening and satisfy my Social Networking addiction not more than once a day.

It’s been 1 day since my last repeat email checking.

One Comment

  1. doron marco
    8 years ago

    Are you crazy I tried to live without emails and it is a huge mistake you will start to see black holes experience trembling and more physiological phenomenon’s please stop its a life threatening action BUT if you will succeed you will have a great life full of innovation and new ideas so…
    I warned you but it worth it
    love you

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